| EDUCATOR |

So some have said that...

"The shoe fits you thats why you are retaliating to her post."

So she have since deleted her post or maybe privatized it since it went viral but here's what I manage to grab early in the morning.

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Some even said I normally shove mobile phones and each of my boys have their own mobile phones since they were as young as 1 years old.

That's so true because my kids are lucky to have a grandfather who gets them their personal mobile phones.

And do you know that all along I have been keeping track of what they watch from my own mobile phone?

Just say that I can block whatever contents I deem unfit for them to watch from my phone because all 3 mobile phones are linked to my personal phone?

Also I can watch what they are watching through my personal phone, switching and changing what they view at the same time (this annoys them all the time).

And did you know that #liljunior learns from YouTube?

Did you know #babyk learns the names of dinosaurs from YouTube?

And did you know that I had to google for the names to find out if they are legit true and indeed they are correct?

Did you know that #babyk only starts talking at the age of 3?

Did you know I send #babyk for speech therapy?

Did you know that I have stop all gadgets for all of them boys eversince #liljunior was in K1 last year?

They have no access to mobile phones now and they don't simply care if they see my phone is lying around because they prefer reading books now?

Why did I allow them to have their own gadgets for few years?

Because they are only 1 and till 4 years old, I let them explore until they are bored with it like now.

Did you know that they have hundreds of books at home from sight words to numbers to colouring to reading to organizing and so on?

Did you know I spend hundreds on open-ended toys to get their brain thinking now?

Did you know I am still sourcing for more open-ended toys and I never fail to get them books each month, just say 10 books per month!

Yes! That much books per month or it could be more if there are sales!

Did you know I send my boys to tuition at the age of 5 and people are asking "WHY"?

Why did I send them to tuition?

Not because I am unable to teach them at home but because during that few hours, I could run errands, do housework, prepare their lunch etc!

And did you know my daily schedule is very very very hectic but we are still moving strong each day?

Did you know that my Saturday is much more worst?

Did you know I read books for the #kbrothers every night before sleep?

Did you know I educate them basic manners from home?

Did you know that unknowingly, #lilprecious is able to point out numbers 1 to 8 at the tender age of 1 now without me having to teach him yet?

Why is that so?

Because I am blessed to have fast learning children except for #babyk who's now pacing and racing up with his siblings!

Alhamdulillah, he manage to be ahead now and able to speak, write and tell me what is what!

And with that, not all children are the same!

Not all children will be going to school knowing how to read or speak or write!

We parents tried!

We parents invest!

Not all, but we tried to make an effort too.

Oh btw, did you know that the #kbrothers do not watch TV on weekdays?

Because they prefer reading and doing their open-ended toys now.

So if you say that the shoe fits me, well sorry darling...

IT DOESN'T at all.

Because I did and achieved!

But when you mention...

"Busy working but you CANNOT spend time with your kid? Then why have kids in the first place?! Buat anak tau, didik dan jaga anak tak tau.

Please, if you think you don't have the means, there are these things called condoms and birth controls. They're cheaper than raising a child."

Who are you to judge a parents will to look after their children?

Who are you to go against the gift Allah have granted these parents with?

So you are saying I shouldn't breed (history) since I am incapable of teaching my kids at home?

You won't know the struggle these parents have to go through to have just this child.

You won't know if the parents tried.

And to see your replies in your comments just urks me when you say...

"Bottomline is : EDUCATION STARTS FROM HOME! That includes discipline and BASIC manners.

U see, I’m not responsible for people’s comprehension skills, or in this case, lack thereof. Ermmm, and u can ask how I know parents don’t put in effort? I ask the children. And children, at this age, barely knowing another adult, they don’t lie. It’s as simple as that."

True.

Kids at that age don't lie.

But as an educator, are you paid to judge or to groom these kids better?

So what if the parents don't put in effort?

Are you in their shoes?

Some parents have to work harder to make ends meet daily which you won't understand with your arrogance.

"Not to say what, but I wonder if some people should actually breed. HAHAHA. #sorrynotsorry Yes, some will be more than willing to be helped and guided and tak malu tanyer.But some need a slap on the face, with a brick, repeatedly. The yayapapaya and think they're all that, aka the bodoh sombong ones"

You are just putting sand into your own ricebowl my dear.

Because as far as my concern, my parents are not well off to send me to tuition back then.

Plus my parents are illiterate so are you saying they shouldn't breed and get me who is doing well now?

My parents never cared about my school, never read me books, never this never that.

But they showered me with lots of LOVE which made me want to learn, be better and to support them like right now!

So don't judge a parent if they DID NOT read books to their children,

If parents can't be an example, you as an educator should because with your profession, young children are looking up to you as a mentor.

Because back then, I did look up to my teachers to be smart, loving and caring towards each student!

Babe, baru ajar Primary 1 dah nak berbual macam gini.

Cuba you ajar budak Normal Technical Secondary 1.

Tak kena maki dengan bebudak tu dah bagus!

And you should know that...

And since you are #sorrynotsorry for saying what you said, I am #sorrynotsorry too for highligthing your arrogance to your school and MOE instantly.

And babe...

For your info...

Please cleanse your heart of whatever hatred you have had towards other parents who are not the same level of you.

Who are not able to teach their children at home.

Who doesn't have the means to get books for their kids.

Who are illiterate.

Who are incapable of doing what you are able to do - TEACH!

Annoyed Mum of 4 boys,

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